A unique ceremony created for a unique life

Every person is different. Their story, their values, their voice. I'm a firm believer that a funeral ceremony should reflect that - not by following a template, but by honouring individuality with sincerity and care.

When we work together, my role is to help you create a farewell that feels real and meaningful: a bespoke ceremony that truly reflects your loved one, whether that means including their favourite music, a treasured belonging, a moment of still silence, or gentle humour that brings a smile.

Personalisation isn’t about adding extras from a ‘copy and paste’ menu. It’s about finding the essence of a life and giving it space to be heard. It’s quiet, honest and deeply human.

What personalisation means in practice

In my work as an independent celebrant, I personalise every funeral ceremony based on my meeting with the family; typically, that's likely to include:

• Words that feel real - a tribute that reflects the unique character of the person who has died, written with warmth and truth.
• Music with meaning - chosen because it belongs, not because it’s expected.
• Symbolic touches - personal items, specific readings, moments of participation that feel right for the person and the family.
• Tone that matches the person - reflective, celebratory, gentle, humorous, philosophical, or a careful blend.

It’s your ceremony - and it should feel like theirs.

Why choose me to lead your personal ceremony?

When you invite me to lead a funeral, you’re placing trust in someone to shape a very significant moment. I don’t take that lightly.

Here’s what I bring:

• Experience under pressure: With more than 20 years of public speaking experience - often in emotionally charged or sensitive settings - I know how to hold a room calmly and confidently.
• A grounding presence: Families often tell me they feel steadier once we begin speaking. My approach is clear, unhurried, and always respectful.
• Professional reassurance: I am fully insured, professionally trained, and committed to preparing every ceremony with diligence and care.
• Personal listening: Before I write a single word, I listen. To your stories, your anxieties and your hopes for the ceremony.
• Calm, clear communication: Throughout the process, I’m here to guide you - offering suggestions when you need them, giving space when you don’t.
  You don’t have to navigate this alone.

Ready to talk?

Whether you already have a clear idea or are feeling uncertain about where to begin, I’m happy to talk. Often, a simple conversation is all it takes to begin shaping something meaningful.

You can contact me directly, or let your funeral director know that you’d like to work with me.

Let’s create a ceremony that honours a life - exactly as it was lived.