For many years in this country, wearing black to a funeral was seen as a sign of respect. It still is for some - the colour’s formality can feel fitting for the occasion. But these days, there’s no single rule and what matters most is thoughtfulness, not uniformity.
Some families still prefer a traditional look: dark, simple clothing that reflects the seriousness of the day. Others choose to honour the person’s personality or wishes by wearing brighter colours, something in their favourite shade, or even clothing that reflects a theme - perhaps a nod to their football team, a love of nature or a favourite pattern.
It’s worth remembering that how people dress is often as much about comfort and belonging as it is about appearance. For some, dark clothing feels appropriate; for others, colour brings a sense of warmth and celebration.
If you’re unsure what’s expected, it’s always fine to ask the family or check the funeral notice - many will include a simple line about clothing preferences. Ultimately, what you wear should help you feel present and at ease. Whether that’s a dark suit, a bright scarf, or something quietly in between, it’s your thoughtfulness and presence that matter most - not the colour itself.