blog

When the practicalities are complete, a Celebration of Life offers the opportunity to remember, reflect and celebrate a person’s story in a personal and thoughtful way.

A thoughtful guide to helping you decide whether your child attends a funeral, with practical considerations and reassurance that you know your child best.

Personalisation isn’t about adding extras from a ‘copy and paste’ menu. It’s about finding the essence of a life and giving it space to be heard. It’s quiet, honest and deeply human.

Exploring how small, personal items - from scarves to books to fishing rods - can bring warmth, story and authenticity to a funeral.

Finding balance between honouring someone’s beliefs and offering comfort to those who grieve, when faith means different things to different people.

Why a well-crafted ceremony can capture the essence of a life beautifully, even within the time limits of a typical funeral service.

Reassurance and practical thoughts for those unsure whether to give a eulogy or reading - with reminders that there’s no “right” way to take part.

Gentle guidance for choosing readings and music that feel personal, comforting and true to the life being remembered.

Thoughtful reassurance that what you wear matters far less than the care and presence you bring when saying goodbye.

How a meaningful, personal funeral ceremony can still be created together, even when we’re geographically apart - through simple and supportive online conversations.

Not every relationship is easy, and this piece explores how a funeral can still honour someone’s life with honesty, compassion and grace - even when love and loss are complicated.

My advice for managing family differences and emotions, helping everyone stay focused on creating a ceremony that truly reflects the person being remembered.